How do i overcome depression over finances and a relationship with an addict?

Please realize that you are releasing control of your life. By being depressed and going into debt you are letting go of the reigns of your own life. Trust me, life is not very good with people who let go of their reigns. Most people expect life to turn around for them just because they can't handle it anymore. I'm sorry, but it just doesn't work that way. I'm sure you know this, but you're probably hoping you're wrong. I believe It's time for you to be a little selfish. Your boyfriend can worry about himself, and trust me, he will. It's time for you to worry about yourself. Put yourself through your own inpatient treatment program. It's time for you to assess your life one area at a time and begin to mend yourself piece by piece. Begin with your self confidence. Realize that your boyfriend should not be more important to you then you are to yourself. Then begin to focus on getting yourself out of debt. When you allow yourself to spiral downward, you begin to accumulate more things to stress and worry and be depressed about. So I say it's time to stop that spiral and begin climbing back out before you allow yourself to free fall any further. Don't allow depression to accumulate. Begin eradicating the things that cause depression and grab the reigns to your life again. PLEASE take some much needed "me time" and focus.